Ernie was like this yesterday. It starts when he comes home and decides that before he even talks to me that I'm "in a mood..." and insists that I am until I am so annoyed by it that I snap at him and he says, "See, see!" It's like he decides he WANTS to have an argument. Normally I don't take the bait but after being home with the kids all day and listening to them I just didn't have the reserve left to cope with holding it together. I have noticed a pattern that sort of spurs these tangents in him. I'll just have to keep it in mind and not take the bait, he has to learn to resolve feelings he is having that are not our fault by himself and not by me snapping at him and setting him off.